How To Make Your Ex Beg For You

Find the best way to make your ex beg for you to come back. These psychological tips will make them regret losing you and make them come back crawling. Before you are ready for this though, you should be able to forgive your ex for the past.

Some things always come as a surprise or shock when it happens, maybe because you don’t want it to happen. One of these things is when your partner breaks up with you. No matter how many signs you may have seen or how many fights you two have been having lately, it’s still coming off as a bitter shock. At times people are not through and make a hasty decisions. But, most of the time, it’s because you are not done talking and still have a lot to say, both good and bad.

If you would like to see their ex regret losing you and make him get back to you, then this is the perfect article for you. These are some great tricks to make your ex beg for you to come back into their life.

No Contact Period

No Contact Period is a must after a breakup. This time is not just for you but for your ex as well. For those who don’t know any contact rule, it’s a rule you have to follow after break up. The strategy is not to contact your ex for at least 4-6 weeks, depending on how severe the relationship was. Remember never to take any contact period lightly because if you do, you may end up doing some long-term damage. This is the time when you are very emotional and angry, so you need to calm down and take some time off from each other. The two main reasons why you have to do it are as follows.

Give them some Space

The best thing you can do right now is to give them some space instead of hogging them with calls, messages, and emotional blackmail. Giving them some space would provide them with some time to think about what they have done. This would even raise doubts about whether or not they did the right thing and later make your ex beg for you to be back. If you continue nagging them to take you back, it would further irritate them, plus it doesn’t work that way. Remember, they are not to take you back, you are to take them back, or that’s something you want them to believe. This way, they start thinking about how to get you back.

Reflect on your Relationship

Post break up, everything gets messy as you are in the habit of following a specific routine, and now that’s all messed up. No Contact period helps you calm down and take a breather before you start trying to put everything back together. These 4-6 weeks help you to reflect on what your relationship was. And also enables you to understand if it was a good relationship, did it have any future, you were right for each other in the long run, etc. And lastly, it also helps you understand if you should even pursue this relationship or move on.

Work on Yourself

Don’t just mope around in this No Contact period; instead, use this time to make yourself a better, more fit, and intriguing type of personality. No, I am not suggesting you change yourself completely; I am asking you to try new things. These new things can be anything or any new hobby that you like, your ex didn’t, or something your ex wanted to try, but you wouldn’t. Just keep an open mind and try to be happy. With these simple steps, your ex might doubt their decision to leave you, and let this will make your ex beg you to accept them back.

Physical

One of the most noticeable aspects of change is physical, so you need to work on that. It doesn’t have to be a gym in particular; it can be running, yoga, Pilates, or almost anything that helps you get in shape. You will see that the more your body gets in a form more confidence you gain. This is good for the long term. Keep in mind one of the easiest ways to make your ex beg for you is to look your best and make them watch what they lost. It is not to make them jealous, to remind them of his/their loss.

Personality

When you get out of a relationship, there are bound to be some habits that you need to get rid of. One of them is saying too much “No” to stuff. This is when you are free; you don’t have to think about what the other person would think or anybody for that matter. So, you do whatever you feel like. I say to avoid developing some bad habits like drinking or self-medicating. Instead, why not create new patterns like what you wanted to do but didn’t like writing a book, learning to dance, traveling, or anything you love. This way, you also send a message that you are alive and well without them.

Relationship

As they broke up with you, then there might be some reason behind it. Indeed no one breaks up with someone they love and is in a relationship without of nowhere. Even though this reason might be a bit hurtful or even stupid, you still have to know the whole story. Knowing what went wrong will help you make it right and make them regret even more about breaking up with you. You are not to make them jealous by doing this; this is for you to know that you did everything right.

Have some Fun

One of the most important things to do after a breakup is to have some fun. When they break up, people are sad, and that’s fine for a while, but after some tears and brooding, it’s time to get back up and start living. It’s not going to be easy, so you go step by step, starting with Friends and Family.

Friends and Family

Group hangouts are best to start when trying to get back up. This way, when things get hard, you have your people around you ready to give you a hand. Some people are scared to show their emotions, but doing that would only make it worse. You don’t want your feelings to come rushing out at the wrong time because that would be embarrassing. So, talk to people if you need, pick out certain friends and family you could trust, and go from there. Having a support system is the essential thing in life, and once you have that, you can do anything.

Go Clubbing

Now that you have connected with your friends and family again, it’s time to get out there and have some real fun. Go clubbing; it doesn’t have to be full-on; start by going out with friends and take it from there. Keep in mind; you can’t talk about your ex when you are out with anyone except for that trusted one. This is the time for you to talk, laugh, flirt, and have a good time. But if you do feel like you are going to bust in tears or, worse, get pissed off and start a fight, then you better get out of there. If you do this with your friends a couple of times, then after a while, it will come naturally.

Casual Dates

Yes, I am asking you to go out on a date, and no, I am not asking you to get into a relationship. However, going on casual dates would help you get your confidence back to be ready for the next step. And this will also show you that there are other people out there who would take better care of you than your ex. If you are uncomfortable with this step, go on day dates as it is supposed to be a bit easier. But at least go out on one date before making contact with your ex.

Make Contact with your ex

If you have done everything, you would realize that you have a wholly good life even without your ex. After knowing this, if you still want your ex back, you should know that you have already started to get them back. The news of everything you have been doing has been reaching them as you two share many common friends. And when you started talking about your new hobbies, went clubbing, and went on a date, this all started sending them a message that you have moved on, which made them doubt themselves.

Hence now is the time to make contact. Your first contact can be anything like you saw something that reminded you of them. But this won’t work if you have been in constant contact with them and begging them to take you back. This can only be effective if you have followed the no contact rule to a “T.” This way, when you do make that first contact, it gives them some hope as they have been dreading their decision lately. So, keep in mind the things mentioned above, and you may get them back.

Be Prepared

Remember you need to prepare, either way, that is if you get a reply then what you want to do, go on a date or something and what if you don’t get your desired results. There is always a slight chance that things won’t go as planned, so be ready for that as well. But always remember that you have a good life without your ex. And if you have done the above things properly, you know that you are going to be just fine.

Don't play hard when your ex begs for you

Once your ex feels the sting of losing you, they may come back begging you for a chance. Talk to them, and if you feel that they regret it, it's better not to play hard. Instead, forgive them and restart your relationship with some rules. You must set these rules on the factors that led to your breakup previously. This way you can enjoy a happy and strong relationship together.

Read our guide on how to make your ex miss you for some great tips.